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We have been dating for about 4 months and so far everything has gone pretty well between the both of us.I've already had self esteem issues and now my insecurity is finally starting to make it's way in to our relationship.I'm going to keep it as short as I can.She has her degree and a job she really loves doing. I have no degree and am currently in the military (a job I absolutely do not like doing)She has a large network of friends. I have a very small group of friends I've know for years.She's incredibly close with her family. I am very distant from mine and incapable of speaking the language the majority of her family does. (She speaks English well)She has a lot of interests she's very passionate about. Hiking, singing, dancing, and really any type of adventure. I have nothing I consider myself to be above mediocre at and the only real hobby I have is video games which I'm not even that deep in to anymore. I'm not very adventurous and singing and dancing even if it's just us 2 makes me feel like I'm going to have a heart attack with how anxious it makes me.It's tough for me to even go and get food with her because her pallette is very different than mine and if we go to the places she enjoys I'm pretty much left with very few options if any.I'm just not really sure what I can do to move away from these thoughts I have. We've talked about it before and she doesn't care that we don't share many things in common but I still can't get the idea out of my head that she is just ignoring it for now and eventually she's gonna reach the breaking point.I just feel like I'm going to end up being a disappointment to her.Edit: forgot to mention that she is the only woman I've had sex with so I'm still doing my best to perform beyond a beginners level. She's had multiple long term relationships and a lot of non committal relationships in between those as well.
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